Bake bread, light candles, burn incense, pray
Bake bread, light candles, burn incense, pray
Bake bread, light candles, burn incense, pray
Repeat daily, all day every day

Ten years of this was enough for Benjie
"I'm not getting much evil fighting done"
So it was on with the armor and off to the outside world to seek out dark places and shed some light on them.
Truth be told, Benjie was just bored and soon found out that being bored isn't necessarily a bad thing, and it's a lot safer too.

Benjie doesn't have a lot of experience with women, 'none' would be the proper term.  
It's not that his Order is celibate or anything like that, there just weren't any women at the Friary, but he's always willing to learn new things