"My dear, what is the use of working hard to improve your body if nobody sees it ?"

She doesn't go out of her way to command fawning fake respect or blind obedience, but she does like to be noticed when she walks by.

Five foot seven plus heels
As slim and toned as she can make herself
Elegant brocaded velvet and silk gowns
and some rather revealing ones too
Carefully styled blonde hair
Mischievously winking crystal blue eyes
Painted and powdered to perfection
Tastefully crafted jewellry and accessories




Lightshow:

Mostly prefers men.
Civilized, well tempered men who know what they want and more importantly, know when she wants it.
Or a rich eldery suitor who can be depended upon to expire quietly in the honeymoon bed, after revising his will of course, one has to have priorities.

Ladies, including those with 'something extra' are merely an amusement that has mostly worn off and needn't be discussed

Discretion in all things but a quick dalliance in a dimly lit out of the way alcove can be deliciously daring if she's feeling a little naughty or perhaps even the attentions of more than one suitor at a time

No real use for evil descriptions, boorish orcs and the like, 'ten and a half inch' anythings, and other practices unsavory or unsightly. Not out in the open anyway  
After all, one has to maintain appearances