Black hair, soft brown eyes (that seem to be hiding something)... the skin is swarthy, partly from living in a tropical environment.  He tends to come across a bit of a stick in the mud when about his pupils (though not at the moment as the household he served has since vanished with  vast amounts of gold).

Distinguishing features:
Dueling scar on his left cheek (ah the passions of youth)
A tiger skin belt about his waist, that he often runs a rough thumb over with a smile that is a mix of cruelty and satisfaction. (revenge can be fun)

Lights:

Green:
Vanilla, rough, bondage, seduction, romance, females and common courtesy, (don't set shit up and then walk away from it or finish it or tell someone to sod off, politely would be best.)

Yellows:
Tattooing, piercing

Red:
maiming, killing, stupidity, idiocy, pedo, closet pedo, bathroom, excessive drama, ignoring your partner's emotes while you tell your story alone (if you're going to do that, go watch porn :P)

If you have a problem with any of this, remember its a game and don't go whining to a DM about it, just f*cking ignore me